A "Gift" From Congress This Veteran’s Day
While the Washington Post has been busy publishing hit piece after hit piece on Veterans, my friends and I have been busy continuing to fight for you fine folk. On the flip side of things, the other W.P.—Washington Politicians, seem to have a "gift" ready for everyone to celebrate Veteran’s day—a budget! How nice of them. Imagine this. You’re waiting on the VA to get your claim right so you can get the bank off your back. The VA denied your VR&E appeal, saying you are too disabled to go back to work (no duh). So, you just don’t have any money coming in. You call up the bank and say sorry, you will just have to wait. The wife and I just can’t agree on a budget right now! How long do you think the bank is waiting? I doubt they are waiting some forty-one plus days. The good news? After Turkey Day is over, it looks like we are going to get to do this whole thing over again on January 30, 2026. To me, fall is the best. College football, hockey, bonfires, getting together with family. Of course, Veteran’s Day, Thanksgiving. The two days go like peas and carrots.
"Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy
Pictured is Denise. She is at Robins Air Force Base. Why? She is picking up her VA spousal ID. The problem? She is picking it up some 20+ years late. You see, Denise’s husband died of Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma (NHL) in July of 1996. As a Vietnam Veteran, her benefits were a done deal? Right. That whole presumptive thing? Just ask Mr. Nehmer. Well, if you are reading this, you probably know that the story isn’t that simple. However, what you probably won’t believe is that it took Denise over 20, yes 20, years, to finally obtain a Judge’s order granting her DIC benefits. I personally know of no other person who has litigated a case that long against the VA—continuously. She has to be a contender for the top 5. Denise calls her case "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": - The VA's Unwritten Policy, and she wrote a book to tell you all about it!
81-Month Rule for Dependents: Another VA “Gotcha” Tactic
VA loves to think it’s above the law—but that’s not the case. When it takes that position it dishonors its core mission, along with wasting valuable resources better used elsewhere. Nor is it a public works program for bureaucrats as they spin hamster wheels for veterans and our families, much as it comes across as such all too often. Rather, it is a vital department of the U.S. government tasked with a sacred duty. Unfortunately, it routinely subverts that fact by twisting legal basics leading to the incorrect denial of key benefits like educational ones, as if saving itself money is its prime directive.
It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Congressional Stool Pigeons; Is Anyone Home?
I remember reading Profiles in Courage in high school. Boy, they just don’t make men like they used to. What a month. I really wasn’t prepared for this spooky of a Halloween season. The VA sure is slick. You release the Philadelphia OIG report just before the shutdown, then say sorry, can’t view the report. OIG website is shutdown—no money! It’s slick as a fox, for sure.
DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000
Perhaps the memo hasn’t reached the BVA. This administration is all about conserving scarce government resources. As the saying goes, there are three fights with the VA. The fight for service-connection, the fight for the right rating, and finally, the fight for the correct effective date. What if the VA gets your effective date wrong by just one month? It is only 1,000 bucks. Should you file an appeal? Well, we did just that, and it costs the government well over $15,000 to get a lesson in Special Monthly Compensation (“SMC”) effective dates.
Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day
Jeff came to me in January of 2024. He is one of those types of guys where when you hear what all he has done, you immediately know his awards and decorations spill over into box 18 of the ole DD-214. First a Marine, then a pararescueman. You don’t see that combo-box every day. Jeff recently got a full Board grant for everything but the kitchen sink. It will make celebrating this Fourth of July that much better for him. While Jeff’s active-duty days may be over, the spirit he embodies is alive and well, and very fitting for a Fourth of July story.
VLJ Lauren Cryan: It’s just leukemia, so what?
I should have known the writing was on the wall the second the hearing coordinator uttered “the Judge today is Judge Cryan”. Its just about unheard of to say a Board judge is anti-Veteran. Afterall, the whole point of working for the VA is about helping Veterans. Most judges go above and beyond to help our Veterans, especially ones like “Brad”. Brad never stepped foot in Vietnam, instead he was in nearby Thailand. He got the same douse of Agent Orange, though, as if he had been in Vietnam. As a result, Brad is ate up with leukemia—severely disabled is an understatement. However, Judge Cryan has her doubts.
Out of the Trenches, Into the Sea
When I started my practice, it was right into the trenches of the VA. Doing battle as best I could for Veterans. The Regional Office and the Board is where the action happens. Its where benefits are granted or denied. Where your client gets relief just in time to avoid eviction. Act and react. Doing a deep dive review and formulating the best plan of attack to get this Veteran the benefits they deserve, as quickly as possible. That is what practicing and litigating is about. Its what gets a Veteran the relief that they desperately need. Recently, I have had to leave the trenches and go out into the sea, but with good cause. Not as a means to abandon ship, or you, but to (hopefully) help more Veterans.
A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better
It’s hard to believe another year has almost came and went. Another year representing the best people America has to offer. For me, I still get that same sense of awe and wonder. The fact that I am allowed to represent so many fine Veterans, widows, and families, across the country, brings me so much joy. Each with a unique story. This Thanksgiving, I have been able to help make one wife’s Thanksgiving a little bit easier.
Looking for something specific?
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Accreditation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Board of Veterans' Appeals
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Apr 18, 2025 Life in the Fast Lane Apr 18, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
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CAVC
- Oct 22, 2025 Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases Oct 22, 2025
- Jun 13, 2025 Out of the Trenches, Into the Sea Jun 13, 2025
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Camp Lejeune Family Member Program
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
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DIC
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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Legislation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Survivor's Benefits
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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VA Idiocracy
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Nov 23, 2024 BVA Declares War on Most Severe Veterans Nov 23, 2024
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Victories
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
- Nov 23, 2024 Why I’m Still on a Mission Nov 23, 2024


The byproduct of any government menagerie is inefficiency. The solution? Congress has provided folks like me—agents and attorneys—be allowed to represent Veterans; help them navigate the complicated maze and red tape in order to secure benefits to which they are rightfully entitled. In exchange for a fee, the Veteran gets his or her benefits, I earn a modest living. There is also a safety net—if a Veteran believes I have pulled a fast one, they have a venue to be heard, to ask the VA to reduce my fee. Congress is trying to end that safety net. That’s bad for you, it’s bad for me.