81-Month Rule for Dependents: Another VA “Gotcha” Tactic
VA loves to think it’s above the law—but that’s not the case. When it takes that position it dishonors its core mission, along with wasting valuable resources better used elsewhere. Nor is it a public works program for bureaucrats as they spin hamster wheels for veterans and our families, much as it comes across as such all too often. Rather, it is a vital department of the U.S. government tasked with a sacred duty. Unfortunately, it routinely subverts that fact by twisting legal basics leading to the incorrect denial of key benefits like educational ones, as if saving itself money is its prime directive.
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Accreditation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Board of Veterans' Appeals
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CAVC
- Oct 22, 2025 Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases Oct 22, 2025
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Camp Lejeune Family Member Program
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
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DIC
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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Federal Register
- Dec 12, 2025 My Christmas Pen Pal Dec 12, 2025
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Korean War
- Nov 26, 2025 What “Do a Little More” Really Means Nov 26, 2025
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Legislation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Survivor's Benefits
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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VA Idiocracy
- Nov 21, 2025 Promise of the PACT Act Fades; Raked Over the Coals Nov 21, 2025
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Nov 23, 2024 BVA Declares War on Most Severe Veterans Nov 23, 2024
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Victories
- Nov 26, 2025 What “Do a Little More” Really Means Nov 26, 2025
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
- Nov 23, 2024 Why I’m Still on a Mission Nov 23, 2024


They say idle hands lead to evil thoughts, or at least that’s what I was told. Living in the south my whole life, we have another phrase for it, “the devil is busy.” I try to keep the VA busy, I would hate to see what they could do with idle hands. This month, though, it seems like I have a new pen pal. I always keep a Freedom of Information Act in the fire, and the VA responded to one of mine, just in time for Christmas! Talk about a Christmas miracle.