My Christmas Pen Pal
They say idle hands lead to evil thoughts, or at least that’s what I was told. Living in the south my whole life, we have another phrase for it, “the devil is busy.” I try to keep the VA busy, I would hate to see what they could do with idle hands. This month, though, it seems like I have a new pen pal. I always keep a Freedom of Information Act in the fire, and the VA responded to one of mine, just in time for Christmas! Talk about a Christmas miracle.
What “Do a Little More” Really Means
Pictured here is John, a Korean War Combat Veteran. At 90+ years old, he is looking pretty darn good if you ask me. This Thanksgiving, though, John may be eating charbroiled ribeye instead of turkey. Why? After two trips to the Court, the Board finally got wise and gave his 2007 appeal to another Judge. The result? 3 cherries for sure.
The 5103 Notice: What It Is and Why You Don’t Need to Panic
Let me guess, you got a letter in the mail, “Important—Reply Needed Within 30 Days.” The problem? There is a 100% chance it doesn’t say exactly what the VA needs, and leaves you more confused than anything. Welcome to the VA’s version of “clear and concise!” I can’t tell you how many e-mails I have gotten over the years, “the VA sent a letter saying they need something, but it doesn’t even say what they need.” Many Veterans open this letter and immediately worry. Does this mean my claim is denied? Did they lose my evidence? Do I need to start over?
Promise of the PACT Act Fades; Raked Over the Coals
Yesterday, at the direction of Secretary Collins, the VA published a notice regarding the VA’s decision to deny presumptive service-connection for a multitude of nasty blood disorders. Another promise of the PACT Act broken. Meanwhile, Veterans’ Law Judge Ray B. Slabbekorn is busy raking me—and you—over the coals. Finally, some joker out in San Diego has been selling VA ratings. Boy, I always knew the week before Thanksgiving was busy, but phew!
H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans
The byproduct of any government menagerie is inefficiency. The solution? Congress has provided folks like me—agents and attorneys—be allowed to represent Veterans; help them navigate the complicated maze and red tape in order to secure benefits to which they are rightfully entitled. In exchange for a fee, the Veteran gets his or her benefits, I earn a modest living. There is also a safety net—if a Veteran believes I have pulled a fast one, they have a venue to be heard, to ask the VA to reduce my fee. Congress is trying to end that safety net. That’s bad for you, it’s bad for me.
A "Gift" From Congress This Veteran’s Day
While the Washington Post has been busy publishing hit piece after hit piece on Veterans, my friends and I have been busy continuing to fight for you fine folk. On the flip side of things, the other W.P.—Washington Politicians, seem to have a "gift" ready for everyone to celebrate Veteran’s day—a budget! How nice of them. Imagine this. You’re waiting on the VA to get your claim right so you can get the bank off your back. The VA denied your VR&E appeal, saying you are too disabled to go back to work (no duh). So, you just don’t have any money coming in. You call up the bank and say sorry, you will just have to wait. The wife and I just can’t agree on a budget right now! How long do you think the bank is waiting? I doubt they are waiting some forty-one plus days. The good news? After Turkey Day is over, it looks like we are going to get to do this whole thing over again on January 30, 2026. To me, fall is the best. College football, hockey, bonfires, getting together with family. Of course, Veteran’s Day, Thanksgiving. The two days go like peas and carrots.
Secretary Collins Signs Memo Ending Presumptive Service-Connection for Male Breast Cancer
It seems like the closer we get to 2026, the more my stupid radar has been going off. While the VA has been busy telling you that benefits aren’t effected by the shutdown, despite education benefits not being paid, upper level compensation supervisors being furloughed, and getting "auto replies" from the Board, Secretary Collins has been a busy man it seems. Busy ending presumptive benefits for one of the nastiest diseases—breast cancer, but, just for the men. Ladies reading this, you are apparently safe, for now. With the stroke of a real pen (no autopen used here), Secretary Collins has undone presumptive service-connection for male breast cancer. This doesn’t help empower women—it hurts real Veterans. Cancer doesn’t pick political sides.
"Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy
Pictured is Denise. She is at Robins Air Force Base. Why? She is picking up her VA spousal ID. The problem? She is picking it up some 20+ years late. You see, Denise’s husband died of Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma (NHL) in July of 1996. As a Vietnam Veteran, her benefits were a done deal? Right. That whole presumptive thing? Just ask Mr. Nehmer. Well, if you are reading this, you probably know that the story isn’t that simple. However, what you probably won’t believe is that it took Denise over 20, yes 20, years, to finally obtain a Judge’s order granting her DIC benefits. I personally know of no other person who has litigated a case that long against the VA—continuously. She has to be a contender for the top 5. Denise calls her case "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": - The VA's Unwritten Policy, and she wrote a book to tell you all about it!
Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases
I told you this Halloween was getting pretty spooky. I also talked about how VA’s Office of General Counsel was running out of money, and that we were told to expect stays in many cases. As always, the VA keeps it slicker than a fox. Thankfully, the Court isn’t buying any of it. At least, for now.
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Accreditation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Board of Veterans' Appeals
- Dec 12, 2025 My Christmas Pen Pal Dec 12, 2025
- Nov 21, 2025 Promise of the PACT Act Fades; Raked Over the Coals Nov 21, 2025
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Apr 18, 2025 Life in the Fast Lane Apr 18, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
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CAVC
- Oct 22, 2025 Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases Oct 22, 2025
- Jun 13, 2025 Out of the Trenches, Into the Sea Jun 13, 2025
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Camp Lejeune Family Member Program
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
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DIC
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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Federal Register
- Dec 12, 2025 My Christmas Pen Pal Dec 12, 2025
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Korean War
- Nov 26, 2025 What “Do a Little More” Really Means Nov 26, 2025
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Legislation
- Nov 14, 2025 H.R. 3132 – A Bill That Harms Veterans Nov 14, 2025
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Survivor's Benefits
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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VA Idiocracy
- Nov 21, 2025 Promise of the PACT Act Fades; Raked Over the Coals Nov 21, 2025
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Nov 23, 2024 BVA Declares War on Most Severe Veterans Nov 23, 2024
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Victories
- Nov 26, 2025 What “Do a Little More” Really Means Nov 26, 2025
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
- Nov 23, 2024 Why I’m Still on a Mission Nov 23, 2024


They say idle hands lead to evil thoughts, or at least that’s what I was told. Living in the south my whole life, we have another phrase for it, “the devil is busy.” I try to keep the VA busy, I would hate to see what they could do with idle hands. This month, though, it seems like I have a new pen pal. I always keep a Freedom of Information Act in the fire, and the VA responded to one of mine, just in time for Christmas! Talk about a Christmas miracle.