"Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy
Pictured is Denise. She is at Robins Air Force Base. Why? She is picking up her VA spousal ID. The problem? She is picking it up some 20+ years late. You see, Denise’s husband died of Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma (NHL) in July of 1996. As a Vietnam Veteran, her benefits were a done deal? Right. That whole presumptive thing? Just ask Mr. Nehmer. Well, if you are reading this, you probably know that the story isn’t that simple. However, what you probably won’t believe is that it took Denise over 20, yes 20, years, to finally obtain a Judge’s order granting her DIC benefits. I personally know of no other person who has litigated a case that long against the VA—continuously. She has to be a contender for the top 5. Denise calls her case "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": - The VA's Unwritten Policy, and she wrote a book to tell you all about it!
81-Month Rule for Dependents: Another VA “Gotcha” Tactic
VA loves to think it’s above the law—but that’s not the case. When it takes that position it dishonors its core mission, along with wasting valuable resources better used elsewhere. Nor is it a public works program for bureaucrats as they spin hamster wheels for veterans and our families, much as it comes across as such all too often. Rather, it is a vital department of the U.S. government tasked with a sacred duty. Unfortunately, it routinely subverts that fact by twisting legal basics leading to the incorrect denial of key benefits like educational ones, as if saving itself money is its prime directive.
Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases
I told you this Halloween was getting pretty spooky. I also talked about how VA’s Office of General Counsel was running out of money, and that we were told to expect stays in many cases. As always, the VA keeps it slicker than a fox. Thankfully, the Court isn’t buying any of it. At least, for now.
DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000
Perhaps the memo hasn’t reached the BVA. This administration is all about conserving scarce government resources. As the saying goes, there are three fights with the VA. The fight for service-connection, the fight for the right rating, and finally, the fight for the correct effective date. What if the VA gets your effective date wrong by just one month? It is only 1,000 bucks. Should you file an appeal? Well, we did just that, and it costs the government well over $15,000 to get a lesson in Special Monthly Compensation (“SMC”) effective dates.
VLJ Lauren Cryan: It’s just leukemia, so what?
I should have known the writing was on the wall the second the hearing coordinator uttered “the Judge today is Judge Cryan”. Its just about unheard of to say a Board judge is anti-Veteran. Afterall, the whole point of working for the VA is about helping Veterans. Most judges go above and beyond to help our Veterans, especially ones like “Brad”. Brad never stepped foot in Vietnam, instead he was in nearby Thailand. He got the same douse of Agent Orange, though, as if he had been in Vietnam. As a result, Brad is ate up with leukemia—severely disabled is an understatement. However, Judge Cryan has her doubts.
Out of the Trenches, Into the Sea
When I started my practice, it was right into the trenches of the VA. Doing battle as best I could for Veterans. The Regional Office and the Board is where the action happens. Its where benefits are granted or denied. Where your client gets relief just in time to avoid eviction. Act and react. Doing a deep dive review and formulating the best plan of attack to get this Veteran the benefits they deserve, as quickly as possible. That is what practicing and litigating is about. Its what gets a Veteran the relief that they desperately need. Recently, I have had to leave the trenches and go out into the sea, but with good cause. Not as a means to abandon ship, or you, but to (hopefully) help more Veterans.
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Board of Veterans' Appeals
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Apr 18, 2025 Life in the Fast Lane Apr 18, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
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CAVC
- Oct 22, 2025 Court Denies VA’s Request to Stay Pending Cases Oct 22, 2025
- Jun 13, 2025 Out of the Trenches, Into the Sea Jun 13, 2025
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Camp Lejeune Family Member Program
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
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DIC
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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Survivor's Benefits
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
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VA Idiocracy
- Aug 22, 2025 DOGE Alert: My $1,000 appeal Cost the Government $15,000 Aug 22, 2025
- Nov 23, 2024 BVA Declares War on Most Severe Veterans Nov 23, 2024
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Victories
- Oct 31, 2025 "Stall, Deny and Hope They Die": The VA's Unwritten Policy Oct 31, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Beyond the BBQ: Service and Success This Independence Day Jul 3, 2025
- Dec 11, 2024 VA Benefits for Camp Lejeune Family Members? Dec 11, 2024
- Dec 4, 2024 The Rest of the Story: Annette’s Side of Things Dec 4, 2024
- Nov 27, 2024 A Deserving Widow’s Thanksgiving Just got Better Nov 27, 2024
- Nov 23, 2024 Why I’m Still on a Mission Nov 23, 2024


It seems like the closer we get to 2026, the more my stupid radar has been going off. While the VA has been busy telling you that benefits aren’t effected by the shutdown, despite education benefits not being paid, upper level compensation supervisors being furloughed, and getting "auto replies" from the Board, Secretary Collins has been a busy man it seems. Busy ending presumptive benefits for one of the nastiest diseases—breast cancer, but, just for the men. Ladies reading this, you are apparently safe, for now. With the stroke of a real pen (no autopen used here), Secretary Collins has undone presumptive service-connection for male breast cancer. This doesn’t help empower women—it hurts real Veterans. Cancer doesn’t pick political sides.